Int Conf AIDS. 1998;12:1005-6 (abstract no. 60020). Unique Identifier :
OBJECTIVE: To show the supportive Role Widows play in restoring hope to
estranged and rejected widows in order to change attitudes of people in
their matrimonial homes. BACKGROUND: Malawian widows continue to suffer
rejection and discrimination and abandonment by relatives when their
husbands die. Life becomes a prison of torture and destitution. METHOD:
Volunteer widows visit fellow distressed widows on weekly basis. The
visiting widows bring with them food items and other basic needs within
their reach. After helping with chores around home; drawing water,
cleaning/washing items, they conduct prayers together. RESULTS: The
ostracized widows gradually recapture hope and are able to stand up and
carry on with the struggles of life again. The support, comfort and love
is offered by people who are widows themselves. The effects do not stop
there, as soon, even hostile relatives change their attitude towards the
widows. They begin to return some of the property they confiscated
earlier on. LESSONS LEARNED: Effective support to distressed widows by
fellow widows provides a sustainable restoration of hope through shared
experience.
MEETING ABSTRACTS *Developing Countries Female Human *Love Malawi
Peer Group *Religion and Psychology Social Adjustment *Social Support
Voluntary Workers Widowhood/*PSYCHOLOGY